{"id":1727,"date":"2022-11-21T21:51:33","date_gmt":"2022-11-21T18:51:33","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/korpekalemler.net\/?p=1727"},"modified":"2023-02-24T03:02:38","modified_gmt":"2023-02-24T00:02:38","slug":"hatiralarla-yasanir-mi","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/korpekalemler.net\/index.php\/2022\/11\/21\/hatiralarla-yasanir-mi\/","title":{"rendered":"Hat\u0131ralarla Ya\u015fan\u0131r m\u0131..?"},"content":{"rendered":"\r\n

Hat\u0131ralarla Ya\u015fan\u0131r m\u0131?<\/strong><\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Elif E. Bayraktar<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Ge\u00e7mi\u015fe ba\u011fl\u0131 ya\u015f\u0131yor bir\u00e7ok insan. Hat\u0131ras\u0131 olan \u015fark\u0131lar\u0131 s\u00fcrekli dinliyor, e\u015fyalar\u0131 ve hat\u0131ras\u0131 oldu\u011fu i\u00e7in daha bir\u00e7ok \u015feyi sakl\u0131yor. Y\u00fcr\u00fcnen bir yolun, oturulan bir bank\u0131n, bir \u00e7i\u00e7ek kokusunun bile hat\u0131ras\u0131 vard\u0131r bazen. \u0130nsan kolay kolay ge\u00e7mi\u015fi unutam\u0131yor; kimileri k\u00e2\u011f\u0131t pe\u00e7etelere var\u0131ncaya kadar saklar da o y\u00fczden odas\u0131na s\u0131\u011famaz.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Ne acayip h\u00e2l ki \u00e7o\u011fu insan gelece\u011fe y\u00f6nelik ya\u015famas\u0131 gerekirken ge\u00e7mi\u015fte ya\u015f\u0131yor. Saatlerce alb\u00fcm kar\u0131\u015ft\u0131r\u0131yor, hatta unuttu\u011fu detaylar\u0131 hat\u0131rlamak i\u00e7in haf\u0131zas\u0131n\u0131 zorluyor. Ruh hali mel\u00e2nkolikle\u015fiyor, adeta hat\u0131ra ‘sarho\u015flu\u011fu’ i\u00e7inde hayat\u0131n\u0131 azap i\u00e7inde s\u00fcrd\u00fcr\u00fcyor.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Hat\u0131rlamaya de\u011fer her \u015fey ge\u00e7mi\u015fte g\u00fczeldir. D\u00f6n\u00fcp bakarak “ah!” \u00e7ekmek, “ne g\u00fcnlerdi” diyerek \u00f6zlem duymak, olmu\u015f bitmi\u015f olan\u0131 yeniden ya\u015famay\u0131 arzulamak anlams\u0131zd\u0131r. \u0130nsan arada d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcr, tebess\u00fcmle hat\u0131rlar kimi zaman, ancak ge\u00e7mi\u015fe tak\u0131l\u0131 kalmak yanl\u0131\u015f olur. Bu durum, insan\u0131n enerjisini negatife \u00e7evirir, ruhu yakar, kavurur, insan\u0131 t\u00fcketir.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Kimi hat\u0131ralar insan\u0131n bug\u00fcnk\u00fc mutlulu\u011funun \u00f6n\u00fcnde engel olur. K\u0131yas yapar insan ve bug\u00fcn ya\u015fad\u0131klar\u0131yla mutsuzla\u015f\u0131r.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

\u0130brahim Geyl\u00e2ni Hz, insana gelen hat\u0131ralar\u0131n, \u015feytandan, tabiattan ve bo\u015f arzulardan oldu\u011funu s\u00f6yl\u00fcyor. \u0130nsan\u0131n, hangi \u015feyin l\u00fcz\u00fbmuna inan\u0131rsa ona gayret sarf etti\u011fini ve dolay\u0131s\u0131yla hat\u0131ralar\u0131n, u\u011fruna gayret sarf edilen \u015feylerden ibaret kald\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131\u2026<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

“Her \u015feyin kendine g\u00f6re hat\u0131ralar\u0131, d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnceleri var. D\u00fcnyan\u0131nki ayr\u0131d\u0131r. \u00c2hiretin de kendine has d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnd\u00fcr\u00fcc\u00fc \u015feyleri var. Mal\u0131n, m\u00fclk\u00fcn, nefsin ve kalbin de hat\u0131ralar\u0131 var. Hak Te\u00e2l\u00e2\u2019n\u0131n hat\u0131ras\u0131 hepsinden \u00fcst\u00fcnd\u00fcr. Ey candan Hakk\u2019a talip olan, b\u00fct\u00fcn hat\u0131ralar\u0131 at\u0131p Hak hat\u0131ras\u0131 ile kalmaya muhta\u00e7s\u0131n.”<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

“Nefsin verdi\u011fi k\u00f6t\u00fc d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnceden, bo\u015f arzulardan, vehimlerden, \u015feytan taraf\u0131ndan gelen i\u011fvadan, d\u00fcnya ve \u00e2hiret i\u015flerine ait baz\u0131 evhamdan hal\u00e2s bulursan, meleklere has bir hat\u0131raya kavu\u015fursun. Sonra bu da ge\u00e7er, Hakk\u2019\u0131n hat\u0131ras\u0131 seni sarar. Bu h\u00e2l, son olur ve i\u015fin neticesi say\u0131l\u0131r. Kalbin s\u0131hhat bulunca, g\u00f6nl\u00fcne d\u00fc\u015fen hat\u0131ran\u0131n yan\u0131na dur ve sor: \u201cSen nesin, kimden geliyorsun?\u201d de. Ben \u015fu ve \u015fuyum; Hak\u2019tan geldim, do\u011fru bir hat\u0131ray\u0131m, diyecek. Daha sonra \u015f\u00f6yle diyecek: \u201dBen Hak\u2019tan gelen bir \u00f6\u011f\u00fct\u00e7\u00fcy\u00fcm. Aziz ve Celil olan Hak Te\u00e2l\u00e2 seni seviyor, ben de O\u2019nu seviyorum. Ben Hak\u2019tan gelen sefirim ve peygamberli\u011fin manev\u00ee h\u00e2linden senin i\u00e7in aziz bir duyguyum.\u201d<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Ge\u00e7en ge\u00e7mi\u015ftir; insan ge\u00e7mi\u015ften yaln\u0131zca ders \u00e7\u0131karmal\u0131, ibret almal\u0131, g\u00fczellikler i\u00e7in \u015f\u00fckretmeli. Ge\u00e7mi\u015fteki ac\u0131 dolu hat\u0131ralar\u0131n\u0131 y\u00e2d ederek ya da ge\u00e7mi\u015fteki mutluluklar\u0131n\u0131 bug\u00fcn ya\u015fayamad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnerek hay\u0131flanmamal\u0131. Hat\u0131ralar\u0131n\u0131n \u00fczerine hayat\u0131n\u0131 \u015fekillendirmeye \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmamal\u0131.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Hat\u0131ralar\u0131 da yaratan Allah\u2019t\u0131r. Ne bedeni ne ruhu insana ait de\u011fil; elbette hat\u0131ralar da. \u0130nsan hepsine sahip \u00e7\u0131k\u0131yor, sonra da sahip \u00e7\u0131kt\u0131klar\u0131ndan ac\u0131 \u00e7ekiyor. Sahiplendiklerini, Allah\u2019tan ba\u011f\u0131ms\u0131z bir g\u00fc\u00e7le, kendisinin elde etti\u011fini, yap\u0131p-ettiklerini yine kendi g\u00fcc\u00fcyle yapt\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcp \u015firke giriyor, ac\u0131s\u0131 katlamal\u0131 art\u0131yor. T\u00fcm\u00fcn\u00fc Allah\u2019\u0131n bir hay\u0131r ve hikmetle yaratt\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131n \u015fuuruna vard\u0131k\u00e7a ac\u0131 kalk\u0131yor; ferahl\u0131k geliyor, rahatl\u0131k geliyor, kalbi in\u015firaha kavu\u015fuyor.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Uzmanlar, ge\u00e7mi\u015fi bir t\u00fcrl\u00fc terk edememe ve ge\u00e7mi\u015fin g\u00f6lgesinde ya\u015famay\u0131, t\u0131pk\u0131 \u015feker hastal\u0131\u011f\u0131 gibi, kalp-damar hastal\u0131klar\u0131 gibi s\u0131k kar\u015f\u0131la\u015f\u0131lan \u00f6nemli bir ruhsal hastal\u0131k olarak g\u00f6r\u00fcyorlar. \u0130nsan s\u00fcrekli ge\u00e7mi\u015fiyle ya\u015f\u0131yorsa, gelece\u011fe de umutla bakam\u0131yor. Ge\u00e7mi\u015fi h\u00fcz\u00fcnle d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnd\u00fc\u011f\u00fcnde, mutsuzla\u015f\u0131yor. \u00d6zlemle hat\u0131rlad\u0131\u011f\u0131nda da ya\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131 an\u0131n de\u011ferini bilemiyor, mutluluk hissedemiyor. \u0130nsan ili\u015fkilerinde s\u0131k\u0131nt\u0131lar ba\u015fl\u0131yor. Art\u0131k hayattan zevk almamaya ba\u015fl\u0131yor hatta depresyona giriyor.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

\u0130nsan geriye bakmal\u0131 arada ancak sadece hatalar\u0131ndan ders \u00e7\u0131karmak, \u00f6\u011f\u00fct almak i\u00e7in. Ge\u00e7mi\u015f de gelecek de olmas\u0131 gerekti\u011fi yerde olmal\u0131, birbirine kar\u0131\u015ft\u0131r\u0131lmamal\u0131. Hayat\u0131n zevklerini t\u00fcketmemeli.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Elbette eski bir foto\u011frafta g\u00f6rd\u00fc\u011f\u00fcm\u00fcz insan\u0131 g\u00fczel hat\u0131ralar\u0131yla severiz. Eskiden ya\u015fanm\u0131\u015f bir olay\u0131 hat\u0131rlad\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131zda da \u00f6yle. \u0130nsan haf\u0131zas\u0131 olduk\u00e7a hassas, unutmuyor. Ya\u015fanan her an, foto\u011fraf gibi kare kare insan\u0131n haf\u0131zas\u0131nda kal\u0131yor. Hat\u0131r\u0131m\u0131zda ise hep g\u00fczel karelerin kalmas\u0131 l\u00e2z\u0131m\u2026 ‘Fotojenik’ olmak l\u00e2z\u0131m. D\u00fcn de, bug\u00fcn de\u2026<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

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Hat\u0131ralarla Ya\u015fan\u0131r m\u0131? Elif E. Bayraktar Ge\u00e7mi\u015fe ba\u011fl\u0131 ya\u015f\u0131yor bir\u00e7ok insan. Hat\u0131ras\u0131 olan \u015fark\u0131lar\u0131 s\u00fcrekli dinliyor, e\u015fyalar\u0131 ve hat\u0131ras\u0131 oldu\u011fu i\u00e7in daha bir\u00e7ok \u015feyi sakl\u0131yor. Y\u00fcr\u00fcnen bir yolun, oturulan bir bank\u0131n, bir \u00e7i\u00e7ek kokusunun bile hat\u0131ras\u0131 vard\u0131r bazen. \u0130nsan kolay kolay ge\u00e7mi\u015fi unutam\u0131yor; kimileri k\u00e2\u011f\u0131t pe\u00e7etelere var\u0131ncaya kadar saklar da o y\u00fczden odas\u0131na s\u0131\u011famaz. Ne…<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":15362,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"saved_in_kubio":false,"_mi_skip_tracking":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_active":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_note":"","_monsterinsights_sitenote_category":0,"fifu_image_url":"","fifu_image_alt":"","_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[144,151,120],"tags":[177,173],"class_list":["post-1727","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-edeb","category-elifebayraktar","category-kasim22","tag-edebiyat","tag-kasim2022","category-144","category-151","category-120","description-off"],"aioseo_notices":[],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"https:\/\/korpekalemler.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/pexels-photo-260954.jpeg","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/korpekalemler.net\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1727"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/korpekalemler.net\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/korpekalemler.net\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/korpekalemler.net\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/korpekalemler.net\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=1727"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"https:\/\/korpekalemler.net\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1727\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":15385,"href":"https:\/\/korpekalemler.net\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1727\/revisions\/15385"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/korpekalemler.net\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/15362"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/korpekalemler.net\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=1727"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/korpekalemler.net\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=1727"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/korpekalemler.net\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=1727"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}