{"id":17239,"date":"2026-04-15T20:11:35","date_gmt":"2026-04-15T17:11:35","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/korpekalemler.net\/?p=17239"},"modified":"2026-04-15T20:11:35","modified_gmt":"2026-04-15T17:11:35","slug":"kaos","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/korpekalemler.net\/index.php\/2026\/04\/15\/kaos\/","title":{"rendered":"Kaos"},"content":{"rendered":"

Kaos<\/strong><\/p>\n

Hatice Derin Silahl\u0131<\/strong><\/p>\n

\u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0Yayg\u0131n olarak devletler aras\u0131 ili\u015fkilerde kullan\u0131lan bir kelime olsa da insan hayat\u0131n\u0131n \u00f6z\u00fcnde s\u00f6k\u00fcp at\u0131lmayan dikenli bir huy vard\u0131r. Bir ba\u015fkas\u0131n\u0131n huzurunu bozmak kimilerine i\u00e7ten i\u00e7e bir mutluluk verir. Kaostan beslenmek tabiri de tam da bu konuyu a\u00e7\u0131klayan c\u00fcmledir.<\/p>\n

Kimileri seninle duvar boyamaz ama yeni boyad\u0131\u011f\u0131n duvarlar\u0131 karalamakta mahirdir. Bu \u00e7irkinlik sade duruyor dahas\u0131 da olsun diyerek var g\u00fcc\u00fcyle \u00e7atlaklar a\u00e7\u0131p y\u0131kana kadar u\u011fra\u015f\u0131r. Baz\u0131 insanlar senin \u00e7ekti\u011fin ac\u0131y\u0131 g\u00fclerek anlat\u0131r.<\/p>\n

\u00dcnl\u00fc bir yazar bir kitab\u0131nda \u00f6zetle \u015f\u00f6yle duygu aktar\u0131r;<\/p>\n

-Su\u00e7lu oldu\u011fum halde onun \u00fczerine \u00e7ok gitmi\u015ftim. Bu hayatta bana herkesten daha \u00e7ok de\u011fer veren \u015eaziye\u2019nin kar\u015f\u0131mda mahcubiyetle a\u011flamas\u0131 beni i\u00e7ten i\u00e7e mutlu ediyordu.<\/p>\n

Garip bir k\u00f6t\u00fcl\u00fck seline kap\u0131lan vicdanlar ad\u0131na utanan, \u00fcz\u00fclen bahts\u0131zlar toplulu\u011fu da \u00e7ile defterini her g\u00fcn yeni bir trajedi ile kapat\u0131r.<\/p>\n

Ucube ele\u015ftirilerin, gereksiz i\u011fnelemelerin temelinde bir ba\u015fkas\u0131n\u0131n ba\u015far\u0131s\u0131, mutlulu\u011fu ya da kaliteli duru\u015fu hedef al\u0131nm\u0131\u015ft\u0131r. Zira kaos insan\u0131n\u0131 mutlu edecek \u015fey ba\u015far\u0131 ya da\u00a0 g\u00fcvenilirlik de\u011fil; bir ba\u015fkas\u0131n\u0131n en mutlu an\u0131n\u0131 sabote etmektir.<\/p>\n

Kimi zaman sevgi temas\u0131 ile motiflenen mide buland\u0131r\u0131c\u0131 bir ba\u015fyap\u0131t sunulur huzurunuza. Sadece \u015fakayd\u0131 denilerek \u00fczerine bir de mum dikilir. \u015eakadan anlam\u0131yorsan\u0131z onda sizin su\u00e7unuzdur!!<\/p>\n

Asl\u0131nda iyi bir insan dedi\u011finiz anda asl\u0131nda yan\u0131ld\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 g\u00f6stermek i\u00e7in en uygun an\u0131 kollamaktad\u0131r.<\/p>\n

S\u0131fatlardan ba\u011f\u0131ms\u0131z olarak (anne, baba, e\u015f, \u00e7ocuk, arkada\u015f..) ikili ili\u015fkilerde fiziksel ya da duygusal olarak rencide edilmenin ac\u0131s\u0131n\u0131 ya\u015fayan da bilir ya\u015fatan da \u00e7\u00fcnk\u00fc ya\u015fatan ayn\u0131 ac\u0131y\u0131 \u00e7ok kez ya\u015fam\u0131\u015f fakat ya\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131 ya\u015fta kalm\u0131\u015ft\u0131r.<\/p>\n

G\u00fcn\u00fcm\u00fczde \u00e7\u0131kar ili\u015fkisi dedi\u011fimiz mel\u00fbn durumun da \u00f6z\u00fc kaos insanlar\u0131na dayanmaktad\u0131r. Neyin do\u011fru neyin yanl\u0131\u015f oldu\u011funu adlar\u0131 kadar bilmelerine ra\u011fmen kas\u0131tl\u0131 olarak yanl\u0131\u015f\u0131 se\u00e7en kaoslar, bile isteye nank\u00f6rl\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn dibini s\u0131y\u0131r\u0131rlar. Ne sitem, ne g\u00f6zya\u015f\u0131 z\u0131rhlar\u0131nda tek bir \u00e7izik olu\u015fturmayacakt\u0131r.<\/p>\n

Onun ad\u0131na utan\u0131lmas\u0131 s\u00f6z konusu bile de\u011fildir, o masumdur, mazlumdur, tertemizdir!<\/p>\n

Belki\u00a0 d\u00fczelir diye umulan kaos insan\u0131 hi\u00e7 kimsenin \u00e7abas\u0131yla d\u00fczelecek bir yap\u0131da de\u011fildir. Ancak \u0130l\u00e2hi makamdan gelen b\u00fcy\u00fck k\u0131r\u0131lmalar hari\u00e7..<\/p>\n

\u0130nsan\u0131n fay hatt\u0131 ne zaman k\u0131r\u0131l\u0131rsa di\u011fer yolu tekrar sunar kader. \u0130nsan kalmakla insanl\u0131ktan \u00e7\u0131kmak aras\u0131nda keskin bir viraj al\u0131r ruh. Yolun devam\u0131 \u00e7i\u00e7ek ekmek mi, ba\u015fkas\u0131n\u0131n \u00e7i\u00e7e\u011fini s\u00f6kmek mi, mumamma..<\/p>\n

\u0130nsan d\u00fc\u011f\u00fcmd\u00fcr azizim.<\/p>\n

\u0130nsan kendi d\u00fc\u011f\u00fcm\u00fcn\u00fc d\u00e2hi \u00e7\u00f6zemeyen k\u00f6rd\u00fc\u011f\u00fcmd\u00fcr..<\/p>\n

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