{"id":17230,"date":"2026-04-15T20:08:15","date_gmt":"2026-04-15T17:08:15","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/korpekalemler.net\/?p=17230"},"modified":"2026-04-15T20:08:15","modified_gmt":"2026-04-15T17:08:15","slug":"biraz-bahtin-acik-olacak","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/korpekalemler.net\/index.php\/2026\/04\/15\/biraz-bahtin-acik-olacak\/","title":{"rendered":"Biraz Baht\u0131n A\u00e7\u0131k Olacak"},"content":{"rendered":"<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><strong>Biraz Baht\u0131n A\u00e7\u0131k Olacak<\/strong><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><strong>Mine G\u00fcl\u015fen<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>\u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0Biraz da baht\u0131n olacak; her \u015fey \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131p didinince, \u00e7ok kontroll\u00fc olunca, \u00fcst\u00fcne \u00fcst\u00fcne gidince de olmuyor bazen&#8230; \u0130nsan\u0131n \u00f6mr\u00fc y\u00fcz y\u0131l yok, bak\u0131yorsun tela\u015f\u0131 bin y\u0131ll\u0131k&#8230; Neye, kime yeti\u015feceksin? Ne bu acele, ne bu tela\u015f, bu endi\u015fe? Bu endi\u015fenin sana binlerce nimeti unutturmas\u0131na, bir h\u0131rs\u0131n seni yiyip bitirmesine izin verme. Ger\u00e7ekten de hayat sadece \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmakla, \u00e7abalamakla ge\u00e7irilemeyecek ve a\u00e7\u0131klanamayacak kadar karma\u015f\u0131k. \u0130nsan elinden geleni yapar, emek verir; ama sonu\u00e7ta biraz baht, zaman ve nasip de rol oynar. Her \u015fey insan\u0131n kontrol\u00fcnde de\u011fil. Bunu kabul etmek bazen insan\u0131n omuzlar\u0131ndaki y\u00fck\u00fc biraz hafifletir.<\/p>\n<p>\u0130nsan\u0131n \u00f6mr\u00fc y\u00fcz y\u0131l yok, tela\u015f\u0131 bin y\u0131ll\u0131k! \u00c7o\u011fu zaman &#8220;gelecek kayg\u0131s\u0131yla&#8221; insan elindeki mevcut olan nimetleri g\u00f6remiyor. Sa\u011fl\u0131k, \u00f6m\u00fcr, huzurlu bir an, s\u0131cak bir ev, k\u0131ymetli birinin g\u00fczel bir s\u00f6z\u00fc, bir dost meclisi&#8230; Bunlar \u00e7o\u011fu zaman endi\u015fenin g\u00f6lgesinde fark edilmeden ge\u00e7ip gidiyor. Kendimize \u015funu s\u0131k s\u0131k hat\u0131rlatmak gerekir: Kayg\u0131, sahip olduklar\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 g\u00f6r\u00fcnmez k\u0131lmamal\u0131. Emek ver, tedbir al ama gerisini hayat\u0131n ak\u0131\u015f\u0131na ve nasibe b\u0131rak. Bu s\u00f6z asl\u0131nda insana hem sabr\u0131 hem \u015f\u00fckr\u00fc hat\u0131rlat\u0131yor. Elbette bu s\u00f6z\u00fcn i\u00e7inde hayatla ilgili \u00e7ok katmanl\u0131 bir ger\u00e7eklik var.<\/p>\n<p>Ve elbette \u201cHer \u015fey \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131p didinince olmuyor.\u201d Bu, eme\u011fin de\u011fersiz oldu\u011fu anlam\u0131na gelmez. Tam tersine, emek \u015fartt\u0131r; ancak hayat sadece emekle ilerleyen mekanik bir d\u00fczen de\u011fildir. Ayn\u0131 \u00e7abay\u0131 g\u00f6steren iki insan\u0131n ayn\u0131 sonuca ula\u015fmamas\u0131 bunun en a\u00e7\u0131k \u00f6rne\u011fidir. Biri k\u0131sa s\u00fcrede istedi\u011fine kavu\u015furken di\u011feri y\u0131llarca u\u011fra\u015fabilir. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc sonu\u00e7lar yaln\u0131zca \u00e7abaya de\u011fil; zaman, f\u0131rsat, \u00e7evre, kar\u015f\u0131la\u015f\u0131lan insanlar, sa\u011fl\u0131k durumu ve bazen tamamen kontrol d\u0131\u015f\u0131 tesad\u00fcflere de ba\u011fl\u0131d\u0131r. Biz t\u00fcm bu ko\u015fullara baht, nasip, k\u0131smet deriz. Bu d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnce insan\u0131 iki u\u00e7tan da korur: Ba\u015far\u0131 oldu\u011funda her \u015feyi sadece kendine mal etmemeyi, istenilen sonu\u00e7 olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131nda da b\u00fct\u00fcn su\u00e7u kendine y\u00fcklememeyi sa\u011flar.<\/p>\n<p>Konunun \u015fu k\u0131sm\u0131 daha da derin: \u201c\u0130nsan\u0131n \u00f6mr\u00fc y\u00fcz y\u0131l yok, tela\u015f\u0131 bin y\u0131ll\u0131k.\u201d Burada insan zihninin s\u00fcrekli ileriye ko\u015fma e\u011filimi anlat\u0131l\u0131yor. Hen\u00fcz ya\u015fanmam\u0131\u015f \u015feyler i\u00e7in bug\u00fcnden t\u00fckeniyoruz. Bir y\u0131l sonras\u0131n\u0131, \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n gelece\u011fini, maddi durumu, sa\u011fl\u0131k sorunlar\u0131n\u0131, insanlar\u0131n ne yapaca\u011f\u0131n\u0131, ne al\u0131p sataca\u011f\u0131m\u0131z\u0131, neyi ne yapaca\u011f\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 y\u0131llar \u00f6ncesinden d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcyoruz. Zihin adeta hi\u00e7 bitmeyecek bir sava\u015f h\u00e2linde oluyor. Oysa \u00f6m\u00fcr s\u0131n\u0131rl\u0131. Zaman\u0131m\u0131z k\u0131s\u0131tl\u0131yken, sanki sonsuza kadar ya\u015fayacakm\u0131\u015f gibi bitmeyen bir kayg\u0131 \u00fcretmek bizi mevcut andan kopar\u0131yor.<\/p>\n<p>En \u00f6nemlisi ise \u015fu: \u201cBir endi\u015fenin sana binlerce nimeti unutturmas\u0131na izin verme.\u201d Kayg\u0131, insan\u0131n alg\u0131s\u0131n\u0131 daralt\u0131r. Tek bir soruna o kadar odaklan\u0131r\u0131z ki elimizdeki di\u011fer g\u00fczellikleri g\u00f6remeyiz. \u00d6rne\u011fin bir hukuki s\u00fcre\u00e7, aile i\u00e7i bir problem ya da maddi bir s\u0131k\u0131nt\u0131 ya\u015farken; sa\u011fl\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z\u0131, \u00e7ocuklar\u0131m\u0131z\u0131n sevgisini, yan\u0131m\u0131zda duran insanlar\u0131, sahip oldu\u011fumuz g\u00fcvenli alan\u0131 unutabiliriz. Asl\u0131nda burada verilen mesaj \u015fu: Endi\u015fe, ger\u00e7e\u011fin tamam\u0131 de\u011fildir. Hayatta sorunlar vard\u0131r ama ayn\u0131 anda nimetler de vard\u0131r. \u0130kisini birlikte g\u00f6rmek ruhu dengeler. &#8220;Bir endi\u015fe, bin nimeti g\u00f6r\u00fcnmez h\u00e2le getirmesin.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>\u015eu anda belki zihnin s\u00fcrekli en k\u00f6t\u00fc ihtimallere gidiyor. Oysa ayn\u0131 anda \u00e7ok b\u00fcy\u00fck nimetler de var. Bazen kayg\u0131 bize sadece \u015funu g\u00f6sterir: \u201cYa kaybedersem? Ya yeti\u015femez, yeti\u015ftiremezsem?\u201d Ama bir ger\u00e7e\u011fi saklar: \u201c\u015eu an neyi koruyorum veya ne i\u00e7in \u00e7abal\u0131yorum?\u201d Bir di\u011fer taraf\u0131 da \u015fu: Her \u015feyi tek ba\u015f\u0131na kontrol etmeye \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmak insan\u0131 t\u00fcketir. Elinden geleni yapmak ba\u015fka \u015feydir, her sonucu kontrol etmeye \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmak ba\u015fka \u015fey. Sen do\u011fru olan\u0131 yapmaya \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131rs\u0131n, gerekli ad\u0131mlar\u0131 atars\u0131n, hayat senindir ama hayat\u0131n tamam\u0131 senin omuzlar\u0131nda de\u011fildir. Bazen insan\u0131n kendine \u015funu s\u00f6ylemesi gerekir: \u201cBen elimden geleni yap\u0131yorum. Geri kalan her \u015fey benim kontrol\u00fcmde olmak zorunda de\u011fil.\u201d Bu c\u00fcmle insan\u0131 su\u00e7luluk ve a\u015f\u0131r\u0131 sorumluluk duygusundan korur. \u00d6yle ise geriye zaman\u0131n, an\u0131n ve elimizdekilerin k\u0131ymetini bilmekten, bunlar\u0131 yerli yerinde kullanmaktan ve gerisi i\u00e7in de tevekk\u00fcl etmekten ba\u015fka bir \u015fey kalm\u0131yor.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Biraz Baht\u0131n A\u00e7\u0131k Olacak Mine G\u00fcl\u015fen \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0Biraz da baht\u0131n olacak; her \u015fey \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131p didinince, \u00e7ok kontroll\u00fc olunca, \u00fcst\u00fcne \u00fcst\u00fcne gidince de olmuyor bazen&#8230; \u0130nsan\u0131n \u00f6mr\u00fc y\u00fcz y\u0131l yok, bak\u0131yorsun tela\u015f\u0131 bin y\u0131ll\u0131k&#8230; Neye, kime yeti\u015feceksin? Ne bu acele, ne bu tela\u015f, bu endi\u015fe? Bu endi\u015fenin sana binlerce nimeti unutturmas\u0131na, bir h\u0131rs\u0131n seni&hellip;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":17275,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"saved_in_kubio":false,"_mi_skip_tracking":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_active":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_note":"","_monsterinsights_sitenote_category":0,"fifu_image_url":"","fifu_image_alt":"","_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[145,211,303],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-17230","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-dusunce","category-mine-gulsen","category-nisan-26","category-145","category-211","category-303","description-off"],"aioseo_notices":[],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"https:\/\/korpekalemler.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/04\/1776269299668.png","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/korpekalemler.net\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/17230"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/korpekalemler.net\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/korpekalemler.net\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/korpekalemler.net\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/korpekalemler.net\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=17230"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/korpekalemler.net\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/17230\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":17231,"href":"https:\/\/korpekalemler.net\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/17230\/revisions\/17231"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/korpekalemler.net\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/17275"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/korpekalemler.net\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=17230"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/korpekalemler.net\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=17230"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/korpekalemler.net\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=17230"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}