F\u0131trat olarak her insan\u0131n bekledi\u011fi bir g\u00fcn vard\u0131r.<\/p>\n
O g\u00fcn gelecek her \u015fey d\u00fczelecek; ne bu dertler kalacak, ne beklenen mutlaka gelecek, dert olan, eza veren her ne ise gidecek; o araba, o ev al\u0131nacak, onunla evlenilecek veya yolunda olmayan her \u015fey yerine oturacakt\u0131r.<\/p>\n
Beklenen ama hi\u00e7 gelmeyen o g\u00fcne ben “Alt\u0131n G\u00fcn” diyorum.<\/p>\n
Ve \u015funa inan\u0131yorum: \u00d6yle bir g\u00fcn olsa bile o g\u00fcn “\u015f\u00fcyuu vukuundan beter” olacakt\u0131r!<\/p>\n
Bekledi\u011finiz hi\u00e7bir \u015fey, d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnd\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn\u00fcz zaman gelmez; bazense hi\u00e7 olmaz, inan\u0131n. Erteledikleriniz ve hatta \u00f6nemsemedikleriniz bir g\u00fcn “art\u0131k m\u00fcmk\u00fcn olmayanlar” listesine girer. Ayr\u0131l\u0131k var, ya\u015fl\u0131l\u0131k var, hepsinden al\u00e2 \u00f6l\u00fcm var. Peki, senin t\u00fcm bunlardan haberin var m\u0131yd\u0131?<\/p>\n
\u0130nsan hayat\u0131na d\u00f6n\u00fcp bak\u0131nca “yaz\u0131k” diyor ge\u00e7en zamana, t\u00fckenen \u00f6mr\u00fcne.<\/p>\n
\u0130\u00e7ime bat\u0131yor baz\u0131 ayr\u0131l\u0131klar; hem olanlar hem olmayanlar. \u0130\u00e7imi par\u00e7al\u0131yor baz\u0131 ka\u00e7\u0131n\u0131lmaz sonlar.<\/p>\n
Ke\u015fke baz\u0131 insanlarla yolumuz katiyen kesi\u015fmeseydi ve dahi baz\u0131 insanlar da \u00f6l\u00fcms\u00fcz olsayd\u0131; hep bizim olsalar, hep yan\u0131m\u0131zda kalsalard\u0131.<\/p>\n
Ke\u015fke biri y\u00fcre\u011fimi s\u00f6k\u00fcp alsa ve ben bu kadar ac\u0131 \u00e7ekip incinmesem; dilerim kimse de incinmesin benden.<\/p>\n
Bir m\u00fcbare\u011fin dedi\u011fi gibi: “\u0130ncitmemek kolayd\u0131r, l\u00e2kin incinmemek neredeyse imk\u00e2ns\u0131zd\u0131r. Ac\u0131 vermemek kolay, ac\u0131 duymamak ka\u00e7\u0131n\u0131lmazd\u0131r.” Bir di\u011fer imk\u00e2ns\u0131z da zaman\u0131n geri sarmas\u0131d\u0131r. Zaman geri gelmiyor ve baz\u0131 hatalar ne yaz\u0131k ki telafi olmuyor. Yoksa ben de bilirdim \u00e7o\u011fu \u015feyi g\u00f6rmezden gelmeyi, duymamak i\u00e7in kulaklar\u0131m\u0131 sa\u011f\u0131r etmeyi, hatta dile gelmemek i\u00e7in l\u00e2l olmay\u0131.<\/p>\n
Nereden bilebilirdim \u00f6mr\u00fcn su gibi ge\u00e7ip gidece\u011fini, g\u00fczel zamanlar g\u00f6rmeyi beklerken say\u0131l\u0131 g\u00fcn\u00fcn bitece\u011fini, k\u00f6m\u00fcr karas\u0131 sa\u00e7lar\u0131m\u0131n kar beyaz olaca\u011f\u0131n\u0131?<\/p>\n
Kim derdi ki ko\u015fup yeti\u015fmeye \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131rken h\u00e2lden d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcp takatimin t\u00fckenece\u011fini?<\/p>\n
Ka\u00e7 defa ya\u015fad\u0131m ki bu hayat\u0131, hayat\u0131n tecr\u00fcbesi olsun bende? Kimin ne tecr\u00fcbesi vard\u0131 ki \u015fu alemde? Herkes; her ya\u015f\u0131n, her h\u00e2lin acemisi de\u011fil midir? Ben de acemiydim siz gibi; siz de sessiz sedas\u0131z ge\u00e7ip gittiniz ben gibi. Pald\u0131r k\u00fcld\u00fcr, d\u00fc\u015fe kalka heba ettik her g\u00fcn\u00fc. Bug\u00fcn\u00fcn ameli d\u00fcnden fazla olmal\u0131 iken, eksik oldu g\u00fcn g\u00fcnden.<\/p>\n
Velhas\u0131lkelam, herkes kalbinin ederi kadar nasibini ald\u0131 bu d\u00fcnyadan. Ama y\u00fcre\u011fi hassas terazi olanlar, yanarak ayr\u0131ld\u0131 bu diyardan. Ne ise b\u00f6l\u00fcp payla\u015famad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z; ne size y\u00e2r oldu ne elinden gasp ettiklerinize yarad\u0131.<\/p>\n
Pay\u0131 paydas\u0131ndan b\u00fcy\u00fck g\u00fcnahlar, kan \u00e7ana\u011f\u0131 gibi g\u00f6zya\u015f\u0131, bir s\u00fcr\u00fc vebal ve sonsuz pi\u015fmanl\u0131k oldu sermayemiz.<\/p>\n
Kendi \u015fartlar\u0131nda d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnd\u00fc herkes; bu nedenle kimse kimseyi anlayamad\u0131.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
F\u0131trat olarak her insan\u0131n bekledi\u011fi bir g\u00fcn vard\u0131r. O g\u00fcn gelecek her \u015fey d\u00fczelecek; ne bu dertler kalacak, ne beklenen mutlaka gelecek, dert olan, eza veren her ne ise gidecek; o araba, o ev al\u0131nacak, onunla evlenilecek veya yolunda olmayan her \u015fey yerine oturacakt\u0131r. Beklenen ama hi\u00e7 gelmeyen o g\u00fcne ben “Alt\u0131n G\u00fcn” diyorum. Ve…<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":17149,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"saved_in_kubio":false,"_mi_skip_tracking":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_active":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_note":"","_monsterinsights_sitenote_category":0,"fifu_image_url":"","fifu_image_alt":"","_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[145,211,298],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-17116","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-dusunce","category-mine-gulsen","category-subat-26","category-145","category-211","category-298","description-off"],"aioseo_notices":[],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"https:\/\/korpekalemler.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/02\/1770119828285.png","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/korpekalemler.net\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/17116"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/korpekalemler.net\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/korpekalemler.net\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/korpekalemler.net\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/korpekalemler.net\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=17116"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"https:\/\/korpekalemler.net\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/17116\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":17148,"href":"https:\/\/korpekalemler.net\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/17116\/revisions\/17148"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/korpekalemler.net\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/17149"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/korpekalemler.net\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=17116"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/korpekalemler.net\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=17116"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/korpekalemler.net\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=17116"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}