Onlarla ge\u00e7en sene tan\u0131\u015ft\u0131k.<\/p>\n
Bir arkada\u015f\u0131m\u0131n arac\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131yla, on y\u0131l \u00f6nce Irak\u2019tan T\u00fcrkiye\u2019ye s\u0131\u011f\u0131nm\u0131\u015f bir aileyle yollar\u0131m\u0131z kesi\u015fti. \u015eehrin kenar\u0131na s\u0131k\u0131\u015fm\u0131\u015f, duvarlar\u0131 yorgun ve rutubet kokan \u00fc\u00e7 odal\u0131 bir evde ya\u015f\u0131yorlard\u0131. Ev, bir yandan yoksullu\u011fun sessizli\u011fini, di\u011fer yandan umudun ve sabr\u0131n s\u0131cakl\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 ta\u015f\u0131yordu. Baba bir s\u00fcredir ortalarda yoktu. Anne, be\u015f \u00e7ocu\u011fuyla ayakta kalman\u0131n yollar\u0131n\u0131 bulmu\u015ftu. Sabah\u0131n ilk \u0131\u015f\u0131klar\u0131yla tarlalara gidiyor, marul topluyor, bazen de g\u00fcndelik i\u015flere ko\u015fuyord\u0131.<\/p>\n
Hayatlar\u0131 yoksulluktan \u00e7ok, sessiz bir direni\u015fti. Hayat, bu evde \u00e7aydanl\u0131ktan eksik olmayan su gibi kayn\u0131yor, ama hi\u00e7 ta\u015fm\u0131yordu. En b\u00fcy\u00fck o\u011ful on be\u015f ya\u015f\u0131ndayd\u0131; \u00e7\u00f6p toplayarak eve katk\u0131 sa\u011fl\u0131yordu\u2026 O\u011fulun elleri \u00e7\u00f6pten demir, annenin elleri topraktan nas\u0131r tutmu\u015ftu. K\u0131z karde\u015f, ortaokul son s\u0131n\u0131fta. Ancak o da a\u011fabeyi gibi okulda u\u011frad\u0131\u011f\u0131 \u0131rk\u00e7\u0131 bask\u0131lar y\u00fcz\u00fcnden bu y\u0131l okulu b\u0131rakmak zorunda kalm\u0131\u015f. Yine de di\u011fer iki k\u0131z karde\u015f, defterleri eski, umutlar\u0131 yeniydi ve defterlerinin kenar\u0131na k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck \u00e7i\u00e7ekler \u00e7izerek derslerine devam ediyorlard\u0131.<\/p>\n
\u0130lk kez kap\u0131lar\u0131n\u0131 \u00e7ald\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131zda, anne bizim i\u00e7in Irak \u00e7ay\u0131 demlemi\u015fti. Misafirli\u011fin en sade ama en samimi h\u00e2liyle, ince belli bardaklarda. Buruk ama i\u00e7ten bir misafirperverlik…<\/p>\n
T\u00fcrk\u00e7esi k\u0131r\u0131k d\u00f6k\u00fckt\u00fc gencecik annenin ama s\u00f6zleri berrakt\u0131:<\/p>\n
\u201cBizi burada istemiyorlar, hi\u00e7 istemediler\u201d dedi sessizce. \u00d6yle bir mahcubiyet ve \u00fcz\u00fcnt\u00fc hissettim ki; \u201cOnlar az, sadece sesleri \u00e7ok. Ne zaman \u015fartlar olu\u015fursa, o zaman d\u00f6nersiniz memleketinize\u201d dedim. Kad\u0131n\u0131n g\u00f6zleri bir anl\u0131\u011f\u0131na parlad\u0131. O an, diller farkl\u0131yd\u0131 belki ama duygular ayn\u0131yd\u0131.<\/p>\n
D\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnd\u00fcm de; \u00fclkemiz bize s\u0131\u011f\u0131nanlara b\u00fcy\u00fckl\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn\u00fc g\u00f6sterdi, hi\u00e7 teredd\u00fct etmeden kuca\u011f\u0131n\u0131 ve g\u00f6n\u00fcl kap\u0131lar\u0131n\u0131 a\u00e7arak t\u00fcm d\u00fcnyaya insanl\u0131k dersi verdi. Ancak millet olarak maalesef ayn\u0131s\u0131n\u0131 biz yapamad\u0131k. Bir\u00e7ok insan sevgiyle yakla\u015fmak \u015f\u00f6yle dursun, nefretle bakt\u0131, kovmaktan beter etti, nefes almalar\u0131na bile dayanamaz oldu. Ama toplumun b\u00fcy\u00fck kesimi, Kur\u2019an\u2019dan \u00f6\u011frendi\u011fi merhameti y\u0131llard\u0131r en g\u00fczel \u015fekilde karde\u015flerimize g\u00f6sterdi, g\u00f6steriyor.<\/p>\n
\u2026<\/p>\n
Aileyle zamanla aram\u0131zda samimiyet kuruldu. Her ziyaretimizde bizi g\u00fcler y\u00fczle kar\u015f\u0131lad\u0131lar. \u00c7ocuklar kap\u0131ya ko\u015far, anne utanga\u00e7 bir sevin\u00e7le \u00f6n\u00fcm\u00fczdeki sehpaya kendi yapt\u0131\u011f\u0131 ekmeklerden koyard\u0131.<\/p>\n
Bir g\u00fcn ailenin b\u00fcy\u00fck k\u0131z\u0131, \u201cBir dahakine size kek yapaca\u011f\u0131m\u201d demi\u015fti. O g\u00fcn, annesinden ald\u0131\u011f\u0131 eski bir tarifi \u00f6zenle uygulam\u0131\u015f, g\u00fczel bir kek yapm\u0131\u015f bizim i\u00e7in. \u201cSak\u0131n dokunma!\u201d diye uyard\u0131\u011f\u0131 k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck karde\u015fi gece dayanamay\u0131p kekin b\u00fcy\u00fck bir k\u0131sm\u0131n\u0131 kopar\u0131p yemi\u015f; k\u0131zca\u011f\u0131z\u0131n eme\u011fi, sabr\u0131 ve sevgisi o ufalanan kenarlara kar\u0131\u015fm\u0131\u015ft\u0131.<\/p>\n
Ertesi g\u00fcn kar\u015f\u0131la\u015ft\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131zda g\u00f6zleri dolu dolu anlatt\u0131. Biz g\u00fcl\u00fcmsedik. Halb\u00fbki o kekin en g\u00fczel taraf\u0131, belki de i\u015fte o bozulmu\u015f kenarlardayd\u0131; bir \u00e7ocu\u011fun sab\u0131rs\u0131z sevgisinde, bir ablan\u0131n utanga\u00e7 inceli\u011finde, bir ailenin i\u00e7tenli\u011finde.<\/p>\n
\u2026..<\/p>\n
Sonunda ge\u00e7en ay, biraz da mecburiyetten, memleketlerine d\u00f6nd\u00fcler. Gitmeden iki g\u00fcn \u00f6nce onlar i\u00e7in k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck bir veda haz\u0131rlad\u0131k. Sevdikleri yemeklerle donat\u0131lm\u0131\u015f m\u00fctevaz\u0131 bir masa\u2026 Ne \u00e7ok \u015fey s\u0131\u011fd\u0131 o sofraya: Sessiz bir minnettarl\u0131k, senelerin a\u011f\u0131rl\u0131\u011f\u0131, bir par\u00e7a umut.<\/p>\n
\u015eimdi telefonda konu\u015ftuk\u00e7a te\u015fekk\u00fcr ediyor, \u201cAllah sizden raz\u0131 olsun\u201d diyorlar. En \u00e7ok da o son g\u00fcn\u00fc unutmayacaklar\u0131n\u0131 s\u00f6yl\u00fcyorlar. \u00c7ocuklar\u0131n hepsi okula ba\u015flam\u0131\u015f. Yeni bir hayata ad\u0131m atm\u0131\u015flar ama T\u00fcrkiye\u2019yi, burada b\u0131rakt\u0131klar\u0131 dostluklar\u0131 \u00f6zl\u00fcyorlar.<\/p>\n
Biz de onlar i\u00e7in dua ediyoruz. Allah hayatlar\u0131n\u0131 kolayla\u015ft\u0131rs\u0131n, emeklerinin kar\u015f\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 versin, yollar\u0131n\u0131 a\u00e7\u0131k etsin. Belki bir g\u00fcn yeniden yollar\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 kesi\u015ftirsin.<\/p>\n
Bir bardak Irak \u00e7ay\u0131 gibi kals\u0131nlar haf\u0131zam\u0131zda; s\u0131cak, sade, hat\u0131rl\u0131 ve unutulmaz.<\/p>\n
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Onlarla ge\u00e7en sene tan\u0131\u015ft\u0131k. Bir arkada\u015f\u0131m\u0131n arac\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131yla, on y\u0131l \u00f6nce Irak\u2019tan T\u00fcrkiye\u2019ye s\u0131\u011f\u0131nm\u0131\u015f bir aileyle yollar\u0131m\u0131z kesi\u015fti. \u015eehrin kenar\u0131na s\u0131k\u0131\u015fm\u0131\u015f, duvarlar\u0131 yorgun ve rutubet kokan \u00fc\u00e7 odal\u0131 bir evde ya\u015f\u0131yorlard\u0131. Ev, bir yandan yoksullu\u011fun sessizli\u011fini, di\u011fer yandan umudun ve sabr\u0131n s\u0131cakl\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 ta\u015f\u0131yordu. Baba bir s\u00fcredir ortalarda yoktu. Anne, be\u015f \u00e7ocu\u011fuyla ayakta kalman\u0131n yollar\u0131n\u0131 bulmu\u015ftu. Sabah\u0131n…<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":16958,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"saved_in_kubio":false,"_mi_skip_tracking":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_active":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_note":"","_monsterinsights_sitenote_category":0,"fifu_image_url":"","fifu_image_alt":"","_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[145,144,151,293],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-16934","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-dusunce","category-edeb","category-elifebayraktar","category-kasim2025","category-145","category-144","category-151","category-293","description-off"],"aioseo_notices":[],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"https:\/\/korpekalemler.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/1761973365203-e1762190108942.png","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/korpekalemler.net\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/16934"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/korpekalemler.net\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/korpekalemler.net\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/korpekalemler.net\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/korpekalemler.net\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=16934"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/korpekalemler.net\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/16934\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":16935,"href":"https:\/\/korpekalemler.net\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/16934\/revisions\/16935"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/korpekalemler.net\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/16958"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/korpekalemler.net\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=16934"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/korpekalemler.net\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=16934"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/korpekalemler.net\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=16934"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}