Hayat\u0131n bir y\u00fcz\u00fc de evlatlar\u0131n \u00fczerine d\u00f6nmekte ve onlara\u00a0 hizmet etmektedir.<\/p>\n
Cenab\u0131 Hakk\u2019\u0131n koydu\u011fu nizam gere\u011fi insanla birlikte di\u011fer mahlukat\u0131n hayat\u0131 ve neslin devam\u0131 yavrular \u00fczerine d\u00f6nmektedir.<\/p>\n
Ancak kalpler evlatlar \u00fcst\u00fcne titrerken,b\u00fct\u00fcn gayretler onlar i\u00e7inken, ne oldu da, bu yavrular kalpleri k\u0131ran,\u00a0g\u00f6n\u00fclleri burkan birer mahluka d\u00f6n\u00fc\u015ft\u00fcler. Bu bedbaht h\u00e2lin alt yap\u0131s\u0131nda ne var.<\/p>\n
\u00c7ocuklar\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 f\u0131trat\u0131n d\u0131\u015f\u0131na \u00e7\u0131karan, masumiyetlerini alan, onlar\u0131 bamba\u015fka bir vaziyete sokan en b\u00fcy\u00fck saik pop\u00fcler k\u00fclt\u00fcr ile televizyon\u00a0filmleri, bilgisayar oyunlar\u0131 ve sosyal mecralard\u0131r. Her bir yap\u0131m \u015firin ve ho\u015f taktiklerle \u00e7ocuklara beyin y\u0131kamayla ve zihin alt\u0131 \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmalar\u0131 yaparak b\u00fcy\u00fck bir d\u00f6n\u00fc\u015f\u00fcm ger\u00e7ekle\u015ftirdiler.<\/p>\n
\u00c7ocuklar\u0131n zihinlerine\u00a0kodlanan \u015fiddet vah\u015fet ve ahlaks\u0131zl\u0131k maalesef kendini g\u00f6stermeye ba\u015flad\u0131. Onlar\u0131n ar perdesini y\u0131rtan, utanma duygusunu yok eden g\u00f6sterimler ve bunun yan\u0131nda verilen bilin\u00e7 alt\u0131 mesajlar\u0131 onlar\u0131 bizim d\u00fcnyam\u0131za yabanc\u0131la\u015ft\u0131rd\u0131. \u00d6yle yabanc\u0131la\u015ft\u0131lar ki inanc\u0131, ahlak\u0131, h\u00fcrmeti, merhameti hor g\u00f6rmeye ba\u015flad\u0131lar.<\/p>\n
Her birisi kendine fazla g\u00fcvenle b\u00fcy\u00fckleri\u00a0ele\u015ftirme, ba\u011f\u0131rma, a\u015fa\u011f\u0131lama kar\u015f\u0131 gelme, dedi\u011fini yapt\u0131rma, emir verme gibi vaziyet ald\u0131lar. Kibir, bencillik ve k\u00fcstahl\u0131k gibi huylar ile donand\u0131lar.\u00a0Bu kadar acaib haller k\u0131sa s\u00fcrede oldu. En sonunda art\u0131k anneler c\u00e2riye oldu da efendilerini mi do\u011furdular. Hat\u0131rlayal\u0131m \u015fu hadis-\u015ferifi, k\u0131yamet alametlerini anlat\u0131rken, Resulullah \u015f\u00f6yle buyurdu: “Annelerin kendilerine cariye mu\u00e2melesi yapacak \u00e7ocuklar\u0131 do\u011furmas\u0131, yal\u0131n ayak, ba\u015f\u0131 kabak, \u00e7\u0131plak koyun \u00e7obanlar\u0131n\u0131n y\u00fcksek binalar yapt\u0131rmakta birbiriyle yar\u0131\u015fmas\u0131.<\/em>“( M\u00fcslim, \u0130man, 1- 5)<\/p>\n Haber verilen bu olaylar ger\u00e7ekle\u015fiyor ki maalesef evlatlar annelerine k\u00f6le gibi davran\u0131yor,\u00a0 babalara ise para getiren, ihtiya\u00e7 gideren hizmetk\u00e2r olarak bak\u0131yorlar.<\/p>\n Peki tarihte bunun \u00f6rne\u011fi var m\u0131? Her ne kadar toplumlar haktan ayr\u0131lm\u0131\u015f olsa da, b\u00f6ylesine f\u0131trat\u0131n ters y\u00fcz olmas\u0131, k\u00fcstahl\u0131k, ukalal\u0131k, sayg\u0131s\u0131zl\u0131k yok. Ne kadar k\u00fcf\u00fcrde ilerde olsalar bile, anne baba ve b\u00fcy\u00fcklere, onlar\u0131 hi\u00e7e sayan tav\u0131r olmam\u0131\u015ft\u0131r. Rivayet edilir ki;\u00a0Firavun Hz. Musa (as)\u2019n\u0131n duas\u0131na ve m\u00fccadelesine ra\u011fmen yetmi\u015f bin \u00e7ocuk katletmi\u015ftir. Rabb\u00fc\u2019l-\u00e2lem\u00een\u2019e bu sual edildi\u011finde, Rabbimiz Firavun i\u00e7in “Ama o annesine iyi davran\u0131rd\u0131, Onun i\u00e7in onu hemen helak etmedim<\/em>.” buyurmu\u015ftur. Elbette do\u011frusunu Rabbim bilir.<\/p>\n \u0130\u015fte t\u00fcm bunlar ve daha nice vahim haller \u00e7ocuklar\u0131m\u0131z\u0131, kaybetti\u011fimiz yerde onlar\u0131 aramam\u0131z gerekti\u011fini g\u00f6steriyor. Peki\u00a0onlar\u0131 bulmak i\u00e7in her \u015feyi yasaklamak m\u0131 laz\u0131m. Bu art\u0131k m\u00fcmk\u00fcn de\u011fildir. Onlar\u0131 kaybetti\u011fimiz yerden\u00a0kazanmaya \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmal\u0131, i\u00e7ine d\u00fc\u015ft\u00fckleri sanal \u00e2lemde bo\u011fulmalar\u0131na izin vermemeliyiz. Kendi de\u011ferlerimizi tekrar yenileyerek, de\u011fer\u00a0\u00fcreterek nesli bulman\u0131n ve kendine\u00a0getirmenin yolunu aramal\u0131y\u0131z. Onlar\u0131 ve bizi mankurtla\u015ft\u0131ran t\u00fcm dijital mecralardan korunarak tekrar d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnmeye, akl\u0131 kullanmaya ba\u015flamal\u0131. Nesli hipnotize eden her t\u00fcrl\u00fc \u015feyden kurtarmak i\u00e7in yepyeni projeler ortaya koymal\u0131y\u0131z.<\/p>\n Dikkat edelim ki biz ve neslimiz Nuh (as) tufan\u0131ndan daha \u015fiddetli bir tufan i\u00e7indeyiz. Her dakika \u00e7ocuklar\u0131m\u0131z\u00a0ebediyen bo\u011fulma ile kar\u015f\u0131 kar\u015f\u0131ya.<\/p>\n Rabbim inayetiyle neslimizi kurtars\u0131n.<\/p>\n Amin…<\/p>\n \n Rukiye Anar<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" Hayat\u0131n bir y\u00fcz\u00fc de evlatlar\u0131n \u00fczerine d\u00f6nmekte ve onlara\u00a0 hizmet etmektedir. Cenab\u0131 Hakk\u2019\u0131n koydu\u011fu nizam gere\u011fi insanla birlikte di\u011fer mahlukat\u0131n hayat\u0131 ve neslin devam\u0131 yavrular \u00fczerine d\u00f6nmektedir. Ancak kalpler evlatlar \u00fcst\u00fcne titrerken,b\u00fct\u00fcn gayretler onlar i\u00e7inken, ne oldu da, bu yavrular kalpleri k\u0131ran,\u00a0g\u00f6n\u00fclleri burkan birer mahluka d\u00f6n\u00fc\u015ft\u00fcler. Bu bedbaht h\u00e2lin alt yap\u0131s\u0131nda ne var. \u00c7ocuklar\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 f\u0131trat\u0131n…<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":16527,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"saved_in_kubio":false,"_mi_skip_tracking":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_active":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_note":"","_monsterinsights_sitenote_category":0,"fifu_image_url":"","fifu_image_alt":"","_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[145,259,160],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-16496","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-dusunce","category-mayis-24","category-rukiyeanar","category-145","category-259","category-160","description-off"],"aioseo_notices":[],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"https:\/\/korpekalemler.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/05\/depositphotos_10422464-stock-photo-children-running-on-meadow-at.webp","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/korpekalemler.net\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/16496"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/korpekalemler.net\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/korpekalemler.net\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/korpekalemler.net\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/korpekalemler.net\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=16496"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/korpekalemler.net\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/16496\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":16497,"href":"https:\/\/korpekalemler.net\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/16496\/revisions\/16497"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/korpekalemler.net\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/16527"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/korpekalemler.net\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=16496"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/korpekalemler.net\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=16496"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/korpekalemler.net\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=16496"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}