{"id":16170,"date":"2023-09-16T21:26:45","date_gmt":"2023-09-16T18:26:45","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/korpekalemler.net\/?p=16170"},"modified":"2023-09-16T21:26:45","modified_gmt":"2023-09-16T18:26:45","slug":"kalbi-curumuslukten-sakinin","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/korpekalemler.net\/index.php\/2023\/09\/16\/kalbi-curumuslukten-sakinin\/","title":{"rendered":"Kalbi \u00c7\u00fcr\u00fcm\u00fc\u015fl\u00fckten Sak\u0131n\u0131n"},"content":{"rendered":"
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Akraba hasetli\u011fi diye bir hasetlik var.\u00a0Akraba olmak, ayn\u0131 kandan olmak hasetli\u011fi yok etmiyor malesef.\u00a0Gerek kendimde, gerekse\u00a0 \u00e7ocuklar\u0131m\u0131n ba\u015far\u0131s\u0131nda zaman zaman buna \u015fahit olmu\u015flu\u011fum var.\u00a0Sadece ba\u015far\u0131lar\u0131m\u0131zla mutsuz olmam\u0131\u015f, ayn\u0131 zamanda \u00fcz\u00fcnt\u00fc ve me\u015fakkatlerimize de i\u00e7ten i\u00e7e sevinmi\u015flerdir.<\/p>\n

Kimi zaman da yap\u0131lan iyi i\u015flere engel olmak istemi\u015flerdir.<\/div>\n

Bana d\u00fc\u015fen ise daima t\u00fcm \u015ferden Allaha s\u0131\u011f\u0131nmak olmu\u015ftur. Onlar i\u00e7in ise \u015fifa dilemek…<\/p>\n<\/div>\n

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De\u011ferli bir m\u00fctefekkir\u00a0 dostun \u015fu s\u00f6z\u00fc ne de g\u00fczel anlat\u0131yor tabloyu:<\/div>\n<\/div>\n
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“As\u0131l akrabal\u0131k ruh arkada\u015fl\u0131\u011f\u0131d\u0131r. \u0130nsan kendi manas\u0131n\u0131 buldu\u011fu kimsenin yak\u0131n\u0131d\u0131r.”<\/div>\n

Maatteess\u00fcf insan akrabas\u0131n\u0131 se\u00e7emiyor.<\/p>\n

Hal b\u00f6yle olunca haset sa\u00e7an kanda\u015flar\u0131nla imtihan olabiliyorsun.<\/div>\n

\u00c7ocukken s\u0131la-i rahimin ayetlerle alt\u0131 \u00e7izile \u00e7izile neden \u0131srarla emredildi\u011fini tefehh\u00fcm etmezdim. Malesef ak\u0131l kemale erince anlam\u0131\u015f olursunuz. Y\u00fcce Allah yaratt\u0131\u011f\u0131 kulunu bildi\u011fi i\u00e7in, tabiri caizse kafaya tokmak indirme mukabili s\u0131la-i rahim yap\u0131n, ka\u00e7\u0131\u015f yok diyor.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n

S\u0131la-i rahimle muhabbet olu\u015fmas\u0131n\u0131 aile dokusunu korumak, \u015fefkat ve merhameti yaymak istemi\u015f \u0131srarla. Hasedin olu\u015fmas\u0131na raz\u0131 gelmemi\u015f, muhabbet ve sevgi ile ya\u015fay\u0131n demi\u015ftir. Akrabalar, aileler aras\u0131nda sevgi, sayg\u0131, merhamet olmazsa kaos olur, huzur yok olur. Lokal olan bu durum zamanla genele d\u00f6n\u00fc\u015f\u00fcp toplumlar\u0131 ifsat eder. K\u0131skan\u00e7l\u0131k, haset t\u0131pk\u0131 \u00f6ld\u00fcr\u00fcc\u00fc zehir gibidir. Bir damlas\u0131 aileleri ve akabinde toplumu zehirler. Bak\u0131n peygamber \u00e7ocuklar\u0131na…<\/p>\n
Kabil, Habil’i bu k\u0131skan\u00e7l\u0131k y\u00fcz\u00fcnden katletmedi mi?<\/div>\n

K\u0131skan\u00e7l\u0131k y\u00fcz\u00fcnden i\u015flenen ilk g\u00fcnah, ilk katliam de\u011fil mi?
\nBu zehir damlas\u0131 milyonlarca, milyarlarca y\u0131ld\u0131r, hatta d\u00fcnya kuruldu\u011fundan bu yana etkisini devam ettirmiyor mu?
\nSorar\u0131m size, Kerbela katliam\u0131n\u0131 yapan duygu ve hisler, Kabil’in Habil’i katletmesinin nedeni olan ayn\u0131 hisler de\u011fil mi?<\/p>\n<\/div>\n

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Kurey\u015f olmalar\u0131na ra\u011fmen \u00dcmeyye o\u011fullar\u0131 Res\u00fblullah’\u0131n ailesine yery\u00fcz\u00fcn\u00fcn \u015fahit olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131 katliam\u0131 yapt\u0131rmad\u0131 m\u0131?
\nTarih akraba katliamlar\u0131yla me\u015fhurdur.<\/div>\n
Haset bir hastal\u0131kt\u0131r.
\nRas\u00fblullah (s.a.v) \u015f\u00f6yle buyuruyor:<\/p>\n
“Hasetten sak\u0131n\u0131n.<\/b>\u00a0\u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc ate\u015fin odunu yak\u0131p t\u00fcketti\u011fi gibi haset de iyi amelleri yakar, bitirir.”<\/b>
\nHaset zehirli sarma\u015f\u0131\u011fa benzer.<\/b><\/div>\n

Daha filizken kopar\u0131l\u0131p s\u00f6k\u00fclmezse b\u00fct\u00fcn bedeni sarar, zehirler. Beyni, d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnceyi, en \u00f6nemlisi de kalbi zehirler. Kapkaranl\u0131k bir tablo \u00e7izer. Kalbi manen \u00e7\u00fcr\u00fct\u00fcr.<\/b><\/p>\n

O zaman \u015f\u00f6yle diyebiliriz; haset sahibi insanlar\u0131n kalbi \u00e7\u00fcr\u00fcm\u00fc\u015ft\u00fcr.<\/b><\/div>\n

\u00c7\u00fcr\u00fcm\u00fc\u015f bir kalp ile g\u00fcnde be\u015f vakit Allah’\u0131n huzuruna \u00e7\u0131k\u0131lmaz.<\/b><\/p>\n

\u00c7\u00fcr\u00fcm\u00fc\u015f bir kalp ile ibadet yap\u0131lmaz.<\/b>
\nKalbi \u00e7\u00fcr\u00fcm\u00fc\u015fl\u00fckten kurtarman\u0131n yolu hasedi defetmekten ge\u00e7er.<\/b>
\nHaset devam ettik\u00e7e ki\u015fi m\u00fcflis h\u00fckm\u00fcndedir.<\/b><\/div>\n

Zira Ras\u00fblullah sav, ‘iyi amelleri yok eder’ buyururken tam da m\u00fcflisin tarifini yapmaktad\u0131r. M\u00fcflis olarak Allah\u0131n huzuruna gitmek istemiyorsan\u0131z hasedi b\u0131rak\u0131n.<\/b>
\n\u0130nsanlar\u0131n i\u00e7ine i\u015flenmi\u015f hastal\u0131\u011f\u0131 iyile\u015ftirmek kolay de\u011fil. Nas\u0131l ki elbiseye i\u015flemi\u015f bir lekeyi temizlemek i\u00e7in amonyak, \u00e7ama\u015f\u0131r suyu kullan\u0131l\u0131yorsa, hasedi tedavi etmek i\u00e7in de irade g\u00f6stermek gerekir.<\/b>
\nBunun i\u00e7in manevi bir\u00a0 m\u00fccadele gerekir. Tevbe ve devam\u0131nda tevbeye sad\u0131k kalma iradesinin tedavi olmas\u0131 gerekir. Haset bir manevi rahats\u0131zl\u0131k olmas\u0131 hasebiyle bu hastal\u0131\u011f\u0131n \u015fifas\u0131 i\u00e7in\u00a0 \u00e7e\u015fitli yollar uygulanmal\u0131.<\/b><\/p>\n<\/div>\n

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\nHasetten kurtulman\u0131n yollar\u0131:<\/b>
\n1- Bol bol tefsir okumak<\/b>
\n2-\u00c7ok\u00e7a kitap okumak<\/b>
\n3-Tasavvufla me\u015fgul olmak<\/b><\/div>\n

4-G\u00f6n\u00fcl erlerinin hayat hik\u00e2yelerini okumak<\/b><\/p>\n

5-\u00dcretmek<\/b>
\n6-Kendini ve hayat\u0131n\u0131 ba\u015fkas\u0131yla k\u0131yaslamamak\u00a0<\/b><\/div>\n

7-\u0130lim-k\u00fclt\u00fcr-sanat meclislerinde bulunmak.<\/b><\/p>\n

8-K\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck \u015feylerle me\u015fgul olmay\u0131 b\u0131rak\u0131p, b\u00fcy\u00fck d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnmeye ba\u015flamak.<\/b>
\n9-Yard\u0131mla\u015fma, infak, tasaddukta bulunmak.<\/b><\/div>\n

10-\u00d6l\u00fcm\u00fc d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnmek, kabirleri ziyaret etmek.<\/b><\/p>\n

11-Ahiretin oldu\u011funu asla ak\u0131ldan \u00e7\u0131karmamak.<\/b>
\n12- Duydu\u011fu her haset i\u00e7in, bir yerlerde kendine de haset duyulabilece\u011fini bilmek.<\/b>
\n“\u0130yilik d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn, iyilik d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcns\u00fcnler senin i\u00e7in”<\/b><\/div>\n

s\u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fc \u015fiar edinmelidir.<\/b><\/p>\n

\u0130nsanlar iki t\u00fcrd\u00fcr.<\/b>
\n\u0130yiler ve k\u00f6t\u00fcler.<\/b>
\nHaset k\u00f6t\u00fclerin \u00f6zelli\u011fidir.<\/b>
\nHaset her t\u00fcr zarar\u0131 verebilecek bir kalp ve beyin hastal\u0131\u011f\u0131d\u0131r.<\/b><\/div>\n

Bu hastal\u0131ktan kurtulup iyili\u011fi se\u00e7enlere ne mutlu..!<\/b><\/p>\n<\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Akraba hasetli\u011fi diye bir hasetlik var.\u00a0Akraba olmak, ayn\u0131 kandan olmak hasetli\u011fi yok etmiyor malesef.\u00a0Gerek kendimde, gerekse\u00a0 \u00e7ocuklar\u0131m\u0131n ba\u015far\u0131s\u0131nda zaman zaman buna \u015fahit olmu\u015flu\u011fum var.\u00a0Sadece ba\u015far\u0131lar\u0131m\u0131zla mutsuz olmam\u0131\u015f, ayn\u0131 zamanda \u00fcz\u00fcnt\u00fc ve me\u015fakkatlerimize de i\u00e7ten i\u00e7e sevinmi\u015flerdir. Kimi zaman da yap\u0131lan iyi i\u015flere engel olmak istemi\u015flerdir. Bana d\u00fc\u015fen ise daima t\u00fcm \u015ferden Allaha s\u0131\u011f\u0131nmak olmu\u015ftur. Onlar…<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":16196,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"saved_in_kubio":false,"_mi_skip_tracking":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_active":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_note":"","_monsterinsights_sitenote_category":0,"fifu_image_url":"","fifu_image_alt":"","_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[243,167,155],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-16170","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-eylul-23","category-ilim","category-zeynephasemibayraktaroglu","category-243","category-167","category-155","description-off"],"aioseo_notices":[],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"https:\/\/korpekalemler.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/09\/images-4.jpeg","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/korpekalemler.net\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/16170"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/korpekalemler.net\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/korpekalemler.net\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/korpekalemler.net\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/korpekalemler.net\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=16170"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"https:\/\/korpekalemler.net\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/16170\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":16193,"href":"https:\/\/korpekalemler.net\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/16170\/revisions\/16193"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/korpekalemler.net\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/16196"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/korpekalemler.net\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=16170"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/korpekalemler.net\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=16170"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/korpekalemler.net\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=16170"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}