Ge\u00e7ti\u011fimiz ay 40 ya\u015f\u0131nda mide kanserinden \u00f6len d\u00fcnyaca \u00fcnl\u00fc tasar\u0131mc\u0131 ve yazar “Crisda Rodriquez”, \u00f6lmeden \u00f6nce \u015funlar\u0131 yazm\u0131\u015ft\u0131:<\/p>\n
\u201cGaraj\u0131mda d\u00fcnyan\u0131n en pahal\u0131 arabas\u0131 vard\u0131 ama \u015fimdi tekerlekli sandalyede ta\u015f\u0131nmak zorunday\u0131m.<\/i><\/p>\n
Evimde \u00fcnl\u00fc markalar\u0131n giysi, ayakkab\u0131 ve de\u011ferli e\u015fyalar\u0131 var ama \u015fimdi v\u00fccudum hastanenin verdi\u011fi k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck bir beze sar\u0131l\u0131.<\/i><\/p>\n
Evim l\u00fcks bir malik\u00e2neydi ama \u015fu an hastane yata\u011f\u0131nda yat\u0131yorum.<\/i><\/p>\n
Sa\u00e7\u0131m\u0131 yapmak i\u00e7in yedi berberim vard\u0131, ama \u015fimdi\u00a0 kafamda bir sa\u00e7 bile yok.<\/i><\/p>\n
\u00d6zel jetle her yere u\u00e7abilirdim, ama \u015fimdi hastane kap\u0131s\u0131na y\u00fcr\u00fcyebilmek i\u00e7in iki asistana ihtiyac\u0131m var.<\/i><\/p>\n
Bir\u00e7ok yiyecek olmas\u0131na ra\u011fmen art\u0131k diyetim iki \u00f6\u011f\u00fcn minimal sebze ve ak\u015famlar\u0131 birka\u00e7 damla tuzlu su.<\/i><\/p>\n
Bu ev, bu araba, bu u\u00e7ak, bu mobilya, bu banka, \u00e7ok itibar ve \u015f\u00f6hret; hi\u00e7biri bana yak\u0131\u015fmad\u0131. Bunlar\u0131n hi\u00e7biri beni rahatlatmayacak.<\/i><\/p>\n
“\u00d6l\u00fcmden ba\u015fka ger\u00e7ek hi\u00e7bir \u015fey yoktur.”<\/i><\/p>\n
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Evet \u00f6yledir; insan\u0131n hayat\u0131ndaki tek kesin ger\u00e7ek \u00f6l\u00fcmd\u00fcr. Kur’an’\u0131n,\u00a0“Her nerede olursan\u0131z, \u00f6l\u00fcm sizi bulur; y\u00fcksek\u00e7e yerlerde tahkim edilmi\u015f kalelerde olsan\u0131z bile…”<\/b>\u00a0(Nisa Suresi, 78) ayetiyle haber verdi\u011fi gibi, her insan belirlenmi\u015f g\u00fcn geldi\u011finde \u00f6l\u00fcm ger\u00e7e\u011fiyle bulu\u015fur.<\/p>\n
\u00d6lmek i\u00e7in y\u00fczlerce sebep var ve asl\u0131nda ya\u015f\u0131yor olmak mucize. Hayat\u0131n ger\u00e7ek anlam\u0131n\u0131 hat\u0131rlatan ve yo\u011fun d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fclmesi gereken \u00f6nemli bir olay \u00f6l\u00fcm. Bunu hep hat\u0131rda tutmak, ancak a\u00e7\u0131k bir dikkat ve \u015fuurla m\u00fcmk\u00fcn olabilir. \u00d6l\u00fcm\u00fc s\u0131k\u00e7a d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnmek insan\u0131 derinle\u015ftirir.<\/p>\n
\u0130nsanlar genellikle \u00f6l\u00fcm d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcncesinden ve \u00f6l\u00fcmden s\u00f6z etmekten ka\u00e7\u0131n\u0131rlar. \u00d6l\u00fcm\u00fc kendilerinden uzak g\u00f6r\u00fcr, kendilerince \u2018i\u00e7 karart\u0131c\u0131\u2019 olan bu konu a\u00e7\u0131ld\u0131\u011f\u0131nda s\u00f6z\u00fc de\u011fi\u015ftirirler. G\u00fcnl\u00fck i\u015flerine ve gelece\u011fe dair planlar yaparlar, \u00f6ncelikleri bunlard\u0131r. Oysa ya\u015famay\u0131 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnd\u00fckleri gelecek, onlar i\u00e7in hi\u00e7 gelmeyebilir. Her an d\u00fcnyadaki ya\u015famlar\u0131 sona erebilir. Gen\u00e7 ya da ya\u015fl\u0131, hasta ya da sa\u011fl\u0131kl\u0131, her insan \u00f6l\u00fcme ayn\u0131 yak\u0131nl\u0131kta, ayn\u0131 uzakl\u0131ktad\u0131r.<\/p>\n
\u00c7o\u011fu insan bir \u00f6l\u00fcm haberi ald\u0131\u011f\u0131nda ya da sevdi\u011fi birinin \u00f6l\u00fcm\u00fc kar\u015f\u0131s\u0131nda, birka\u00e7 g\u00fcn \u00f6l\u00fcmden s\u00f6z eder, sonra eski gaflet i\u00e7indeki ya\u015fam\u0131na geri d\u00f6ner. Halb\u00fbki \u00f6l\u00fcm, hayat\u0131 boyunca insana kendini hat\u0131rlat\u0131r. Baz\u0131 insanlar i\u00e7in bu hat\u0131rlatmalar fayda verir; kendisini tekrar g\u00f6zden ge\u00e7irerek, \u00f6nceliklerini yeniden d\u00fczenlemesi gerekti\u011fini anlar. Ancak bir\u00e7ok insan, kalplerinin ve g\u00f6zlerinin \u00f6n\u00fcndeki gaflet perdesi nedeniyle, bu hat\u0131rlatmalardan ders \u00e7\u0131kar\u0131p \u00f6\u011f\u00fct almaz.<\/p>\n
Allah, insan\u0131n gururunu ezecek bir\u00e7ok \u015fey yaratm\u0131\u015ft\u0131r. Bedeni s\u00fcrekli bak\u0131m ister, bakmad\u0131\u011f\u0131nda peri\u015fan olur. Kad\u0131n ya da erkek, sabah ak\u015fam, g\u00fcn i\u00e7inde onlarca acizli\u011fini g\u00f6r\u00fcr ancak buna ra\u011fmen ki\u015finin enaniyeti k\u0131r\u0131lmaz. Ya da \u00f6nemli bir hastal\u0131\u011fa yakalan\u0131r;\u00a0“ben g\u00fc\u00e7l\u00fcy\u00fcm, bunu da yenerim.”<\/i>\u00a0der, etkilenmez. Tedavi masraflar\u0131 ile gururlan\u0131r. Hatta \u00e7ok pahal\u0131ya sat\u0131n ald\u0131\u011f\u0131 aile mezarl\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 \u00f6v\u00fcnerek anlat\u0131r. Kendisini mezara haz\u0131rlayaca\u011f\u0131 yerde, kendisine mezar haz\u0131rlar.<\/p>\n
Kimi ya\u015flan\u0131p \u00f6l\u00fcme iyice yakla\u015ft\u0131\u011f\u0131 halde tela\u015fa kap\u0131lmaz, ak\u0131ls\u0131zca bir rahatl\u0131kla \u00f6l\u00fcm\u00fc bekler. Bu ki\u015filer i\u00e7in \u00f6l\u00fcm do\u011fal bir \u015feydir, derin bir uykudur; huzur, s\u00fck\u00fbnet ve sonsuz rahatl\u0131kt\u0131r.<\/b><\/p>\n
Ve bir g\u00fcn, \u00f6l\u00fcmle birlikte tam da ebedi uykuya dalacaklar\u0131n\u0131 zannettikleri anda ger\u00e7e\u011fi g\u00f6r\u00fcrler.\u00a0 Gelen \u00f6l\u00fcm melekleri, onlar\u0131 bekleyen azab\u0131n ilk habercileridir.\u00a0“… melekler, y\u00fczlerine ve arkalar\u0131na vura vura”<\/b>\u00a0al\u0131rlar canlar\u0131n\u0131. (Muhammed Suresi, 27) Anlarlar ki; \u00f6l\u00fcm bir son de\u011fil, kendileri i\u00e7in azapla dolu bir sonsuz hayat\u0131n ba\u015flang\u0131c\u0131d\u0131r.<\/p>\n
“Yoksa k\u00f6t\u00fcl\u00fcklere bat\u0131p-yara alanlar, kendilerini iman edip salih amellerde bulunanlar gibi k\u0131laca\u011f\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 m\u0131 sand\u0131lar? Hayatlar\u0131 ve \u00f6l\u00fcmleri bir mi? Ne k\u00f6t\u00fc h\u00fck\u00fcm veriyorlar.<\/b>\u00a0(Casiye Suresi, 21) ayetiyle bildirildi\u011fi \u00fczere, m\u00fcminin \u00f6l\u00fcm an\u0131, ink\u00e2rc\u0131dan tamamen farkl\u0131d\u0131r. Gelen \u00f6l\u00fcm melekleri, m\u00fcmine hi\u00e7bir rahats\u0131zl\u0131k vermeden g\u00fczellikle can\u0131n\u0131 al\u0131rlar. M\u00fcmin, can\u0131n\u0131n al\u0131n\u0131\u015f \u015feklinden, ya\u015fayaca\u011f\u0131 olaylar\u0131n zincirleme olarak g\u00fczel gidece\u011fini anlar.<\/p>\n
\u00d6l\u00fcmle birlikte insan\u0131n d\u00fcnyaya dair g\u00f6r\u00fcnt\u00fcs\u00fc de\u011fi\u015fir.\u00a0 Kur’an’\u0131n\u00a0“Eyvahlar bize, uykuya-b\u0131rak\u0131ld\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z yerden bizi kim diriltip-kald\u0131rd\u0131? Bu, Rahman (olan Allah)\u0131n va’detti\u011fidir, (demek ki) g\u00f6nderilen (el\u00e7i)ler do\u011fru s\u00f6ylemi\u015f”\u00a0<\/b>(Yasin Suresi, 52) ayetinin bildirdi\u011fi gibi, insan adeta flu r\u00fcyadan net olan ger\u00e7ek d\u00fcnyaya ge\u00e7er gibi sonsuz hayat\u0131na ge\u00e7i\u015f yapar. Peygamberimiz (asm),\u00a0\u00a0“\u0130nsanlar uykudad\u0131r, \u00f6l\u00fcmle uyan\u0131rlar”<\/i>\u00a0buyurarak bu ger\u00e7e\u011fe dikkat \u00e7eker.<\/p>\n
Hayatlar\u0131 ve \u00f6l\u00fcmleri bir olmayan ate\u015f halk\u0131 ile Cennet halk\u0131n\u0131n, sonsuz hayatlar\u0131 da \u015f\u00fcphesiz\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 bir olmaz. Cennet halk\u0131, nank\u00f6rlerin aksine Cennette de Rablerine hamd eder ve \u015f\u00f6yle derler:<\/p>\n
“Bize olan vaadinde sad\u0131k kalan ve bizi bu yere miras\u00e7\u0131 k\u0131lan Allah’a hamd olsun ki, Cennetten diledi\u011fimiz yerde konaklayabiliriz. (Salih) Amellerde bulunanlar\u0131n ecri ne g\u00fczeldir. (Z\u00fcmer Suresi, 74)<\/b><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
Ge\u00e7ti\u011fimiz ay 40 ya\u015f\u0131nda mide kanserinden \u00f6len d\u00fcnyaca \u00fcnl\u00fc tasar\u0131mc\u0131 ve yazar “Crisda Rodriquez”, \u00f6lmeden \u00f6nce \u015funlar\u0131 yazm\u0131\u015ft\u0131: \u201cGaraj\u0131mda d\u00fcnyan\u0131n en pahal\u0131 arabas\u0131 vard\u0131 ama \u015fimdi tekerlekli sandalyede ta\u015f\u0131nmak zorunday\u0131m. Evimde \u00fcnl\u00fc markalar\u0131n giysi, ayakkab\u0131 ve de\u011ferli e\u015fyalar\u0131 var ama \u015fimdi v\u00fccudum hastanenin verdi\u011fi k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck bir beze sar\u0131l\u0131. Evim l\u00fcks bir malik\u00e2neydi ama \u015fu an…<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":16195,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"saved_in_kubio":false,"_mi_skip_tracking":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_active":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_note":"","_monsterinsights_sitenote_category":0,"fifu_image_url":"","fifu_image_alt":"","_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[145,151,243],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-16168","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-dusunce","category-elifebayraktar","category-eylul-23","category-145","category-151","category-243","description-off"],"aioseo_notices":[],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"https:\/\/korpekalemler.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/09\/images-50.jpeg","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/korpekalemler.net\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/16168"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/korpekalemler.net\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/korpekalemler.net\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/korpekalemler.net\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/korpekalemler.net\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=16168"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/korpekalemler.net\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/16168\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":16169,"href":"https:\/\/korpekalemler.net\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/16168\/revisions\/16169"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/korpekalemler.net\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/16195"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/korpekalemler.net\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=16168"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/korpekalemler.net\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=16168"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/korpekalemler.net\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=16168"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}